"Nathanael, come on," Noelia whispers. They rush to my bedroom and shut the door. Grandma can't come in because it's a surprise. The same surprise that they give me every day, but it's still an exciting surprise. The first time they found my bed unmade they decided to do it for me, and I was so blessed by their efforts that I reacted accordingly. Since that day it has become a daily event, an exciting one because it makes Grandma happy. If I forget and make the bed myself, they are disappointed. Children love surprises, and remember, to them, the giving end is the most exciting part. Getting surprises are nice, but it's way more fun anticipating the look on a parent's or grandparent's face. Don't ever disappoint them by forgetting to be delighted. There are times when I see that they need a bit more instruction on the finer details of bed making, but I can do that without spoiling the surprise if I am careful to react positively first and then show them how they could make it even better if they wanted to be real experts. I also love their creative ways of positioning Biscuits and Gravy and Monkey, and we have fun with that. So, Nathanael and Noelia will continue to make my bed and will always love doing it. It may never be perfect, but it is precious. They have also started making their own beds at home which is definitely a plus. But the biggest bonus they receive is the experience of joy in serving. If they are to have the servants heart of a true Christian, it should start now, and in the eyes of there grandparents at least, this is happening with Nathanael and Noelia. You might also enjoy Ways to make a Difference For previous blog go to Creation Museum, a Great Place to Take the Grandkids
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Christian loves to surprise both Dan and I. He is always asking me to help him make cards for Dan, and he makes special drawings for me almost every day. He surprises me by doing school things without being asked. He loves to make up songs about Jesus and sing them to us. Even though we are actually Christian's parents technically, we react to these surprises with glee, as any grandparent would.
ReplyDeleteIsn't it amazing that the desire to surprise and delight those they love is so strong when they are little but often disappears as they grow older? I wonder how we can change that?
ReplyDeleteThis holds true for mom's and dad's too. Great post. (We have a Nathanael too
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Deborah
Does that mean Bub's real name is Nathanael? It looks like you actually spell it the same. That's not how it is usually spelled.
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